I am very sure that many of us have faced this situation. We can't call it as jealousy but still we can't feel the happiness. It makes us feel sad and depressed. Sometimes, we will fight with the superpower so called GOD who is there somewhere hiding in clouds or walking with us wearing clothe which makes him invisible to us like the one we saw in Harry potter. Even we can't see him/ her, still we fight with him, shout at him, share our sorrows with him.

How many of us have felt a stroke of pain when your colleague, your dear most friend or someone you know share that they got a nice job with a huge salary, that they found a person of their life or that they are going to getting married. I hope maximum number of people would have faced it. We felt the pain not because they achieved/ obtained, it's because Why I too can't get that happiness.When these thoughts were going inside our mind, we hide our internal storm with a smile in our lips, will congratulate, ask necessary questions. Obviously, from heart we wish them to grow higher.

We are the people who won't cry in-front of anybody but will cry under the blanket. Yet we woke up in the next morning with a strong hope of doing something to overcome our sorrow like I created a blog, preparing for bank exam, preparing for next interview, doing something for the society. Will motivate ourselves that someday good things will come to us and we plan to increase the amount of effort we put forward. 

Our imagination of reaching success is like a bird, that opens their wings, fly higher and anywhere.

But still some people may think we are jealous of people who achieve things. Why even we, ourselves feel 

ARE WE JEALOUS ON THEM?

WHAT I SAY IS? ...........     a big NO

If you guys know the real word for the feel we face, comment it down.  

Guys, I am really not sure we will achieve or not. But don't lose hope. Keep on moving forward. 

If I ask "Have you ever cried and for what?"

Many of us would have answered immediately that

I have cried when I failed in something that I am thriving to achieve,

I have cried when I lost someone close in my life,

I have cried when I was hurt severely,

I have cried when I missed someone,

I have cried when my life was taking a horrible path that I never expected,
I have cried when someone helped me at the right time,
I have cried when I get a blessing from a person whoma I helped at his difficult situation,
I have cried when someone I never expected has showered me with love.

When we look at these answers closely, immediate thing that comes to our mind is something that is real, an existing thing, that happened in our real life.

But lets think little deeper, you will find out that you have cried for some 

imaginary things too.

Examples could be,you would have cried for someone's sorrow that you saw in a movie,

some heart touching poetic lines would have made you cry, some interesting romantic novels would have triggered your tear bursting hormones.

Of course, I too have faced many such circumstances where I have cried for somea imaginary happenings. I have cried when I was watching a scene from the movie called Gajini (Tamil Movie). In that particular scene Villian beats the heroine's head with a shovel, like a golfer hit the golf ball with his stick. We would have seen so many scene like this but will feel for it only when the person creates a connection with us. So this heroine is a kind of a person who wants to achieve in her life, she is very helpful, she can make anybody her friend with her attitude. Other situations that made me cry are: when I was reading a  heart melting poetic lines that speaks about husband's love towards his wife during her pregnancy, there are few other movies and romantic novels are in a list that made me shed tears. They are quiet normal and happens to anybody.

But recently I have cried while I was reaching an end of a thriller novel, which is not an usual thing. Thrillers always hold us in mystery, make our heart to beat fast, it won't let us keep the book down. We readers knew already that good people going to win at the end but what makes us to read the novel? How they arrive at the climax?. Definitely, climax won't give us any kind of thrill or any mystery. Only expression we will be left with, "oh my god, I finished the story but it was awesome to travel through the novel. Yeah of course, finding a best book again could be a little bit time consuming thing. But I have not cried cause I am going to finish the novel, I cried because one of the main character was dead due to his old age illness - Pancreatic Cancer. In my view, it is little bit weird. He faced a normal death yet that made me miss him. I felt like it is an end of his life. He won't be there in any other parts of his Creator's coming up novel. It's like death of Logan in Logan . He is gone, we can't see him again. 

I know all of you will be eager to know THE BOOK's NAME.

Mr. Mercedes Trilogy by Stephen King. The best thriller I have ever read. Mr. Mercedes is the 1st part, Finders Keepers is the 2nd  - it is a standalone novel, End of watch is the 3rd.

If you guys are not into reading, then you guys have an option of watching Mr. Mercedes series. But I doubt that it will be more interesting than the novel.

As we all know kids are always loaded with questions, many of them are the most weirdest ones. They love asking and we hate answering especially the weird ones. 

Why so? 

Because we don't have an answer and we don't want to accept it. 😑

May be once upon time, when there is no definition for gravity. "Why do apple falls?", could have been considered as the weirdest question too. Newton wouldn't have created the definition for gravity, if that question has not raised in his mind. So, no question is useless/ weirdest. It's just that we didn't give it a thought. 

Even when we were kids, we had loads and loads of questions. Many of the time we had asked them out of curiosity. If it is a well known fact, we will surely get an answer. Otherwise, not only the question be left unanswered. We became a child who irritates & who annoys our parents. Unfortunately, we repeat the same with our kids.

Why we always think that we need to answer our children. Why can't  it be an other way round? Why don't we encourage them to find an answer for their own questions? Why we need to demotivate them from asking their questions? They may end up in finding/ not finding their answer. But, definitely they won't be demotivated. 

It's good to prove that you are knowledgeable but don't ever use the technique of pointing their question as weird ones. How do you know it's weird? Instead, spend some time to get an answer. May be you could help them. Everyone of us want our child to be a Scientist, to be a Researcher. But what is our contribution. Earning money and spending for their studies. Is that mean your contribution? 

Then tell me, why can't you be a Scientist? 😏

"When I was a kid, I had this question. Sun is the brightest star and why it can't lit up the space. Eventually, I got an answer. Not from the text book or not from any elders. I happened to find the answer when I was playing with a torch and I didn't know the real terms like intensity and other Physic terms. But I got an experimental answer, how torch can't lit up the entire room, Sun can't lit up the space. That's the power of brain, you don't need to constantly think about something to get an answer. Put that in your brain and listen to your brain. You will get your answer for sure. I am a grown up person now. But I always have many weirdest questions. Many have laughed at me, many teachers can't answer my question. I will keep adding it to my mind. I am sure that I will get an answer because I am not weird. "

This is my thought.

1. Don't ever get annoyed or irritated towards

your child for being loaded with weird question

2. Listen to your child's question clearly, ask your doubts and put that in your mind. May be you can find the answer first

3. Don't ever impose your understanding on your child. Everyone has brain but that doesn't mean they have same power. Everybody has mouth, but that doesn't mean everyone has same voice. 

Thanks for reading. Reading is a great habit.

Guys, 

This should have been my 1st post. But that's okay, cause more than sharing who am I. I want to share the thoughts that comes to my mind.

Some of my friends in Facebook and Whats app asked why is it Anariya? not your name.

The Name Anariya is a combination of the persons I like most. I have taken few letter from their names and this is how Anariya shows up in my life. Of course, for me 💓.

Anariya is not only used as my blogger name, it is my phone name, it is my bluetooth's name, it is my share it name, it is my swiggy name, it is the name I use wherever I don't want to reveal my real name. May be a kindah pen name for me 😉 

ANA - have taken 1st three letters  from the name of the person I really love, I can't love someone like that ever. I am proud of. 

RI     - have taken  middle two letters from the name of the person who cares me a lot.

YA    - have taken last two letters from the name of the person who is my pillar of support.

It's really a great combo than my real name.

What this blog is about?

"My blog's title speaks for it"

I want to share my thoughts that comes up in my mind. It could be anything but that should have stirred me completely. Like the dog from Humanity and the Comedian from Hunger had made me cry. I felt I am living a better life than these two characters. I am feeling thankful and I want people out there to understand the same. Everybody needs someone to listen to you and this blog is my communication tool.

Guys, don't think that my blog will be only about sadness/ advice. There are so many things that have left its impression on me. I will speak about happiness, speak about novel that impressed me. 

Simply, this blog is all about sharing my mind that has an adverse effect over me.

Support me, follow me, encourage me, listen to me. Reading is a great skill. But nowadays many youngsters are not ready to do so. If you are still having the habit of reading hats off.

Guys,

There are Millions and millions of words in English or in any language. But there are few words when it has been said or heard, it makes us to feel the real pain, happiness, anger, guilt. One kind of such word is Hunger. This word can be an example of all the four feelings.

Pain when you think about the person who is really hungry.

Happiness when you think about the person who helped him and when you think about the hunger who got his meal. 

Anger when you think about the person who didn't care about his hunger.

Guilt when you think that you didn't help him.

But Guys, have you ever thought giving a food to an hungry stomach is a godly deed. It's true, when there is hunger the person will start loosing his senses one by one. At one stage, he will be ready to do anything to feed his stomach. That anything sometimes happen to be a good one but most of the time they end up in bad doings. Thief, prostitution - from where did they started?

"Hunger". 

Do you know you can become a God to someone just by sharing your one meal to one person for one time. The wish they give will come from the core of their heart.

I have said just sharing your meal, but it has following benefits to the hunger and you. Hunger will get energy, will do something to get his next meal. Definitely, it won't be a bad one. You will get happiness, good wish, the respect and you made your small contribution in stopping the person from bad doings.

I want to share an incident that I heard in a reality show. I don't want to mention what show it is. I am least bothered about that. There was a comedian who is also a part of that reality show came to Chennai to search for a film opportunity. As we all know, it is tough to get into industry. Until we get into it, it shows what hell is. He is not an exception. Somehow, he manage to stay at road side. But, there comes a struggle for food.

For a few days, he tried controlling his hunger. After that, he begged people for money, food. It's raining correct? So good people are there in some corners. somehow he collected some amount and had food.

On one such day when he was really hungry, known person of him told that there is a marriage celebration at Porur (a place in Chennai). So they both planned that they will go there and have some food. Haann Noo. Variety of good food. Unfortunately, they don't have money to take a public transport. So both of them walked from Mylapore ( a place in chennai far from Porur) to Porur. Went in, by God's grace they got a place to sit and have food.

It's South Indian tradition that they will serve vegetables dishes (Side dish) first, then comes rice, gravy and so on. He finished his vegetable dishes and he was waiting for rice & gravy. They served rice and Sambar (Gravy). Guys, I want you to feel it. The most wanted food, it is in front of him. He is about to have his first bite, imagine he is about to have his 1st bite. God's play, there comes a hand to stop his wrist from eating and followed by these words " Sorry, we are yet to serve many of our guests. Wait, until all batches are over."

Can you feel the stream of thoughts that will be going through in his mind. Shame, guilt, trying to control his tears. I am not sure whether he faced it or not. But I am sure, there are people facing this reality.

This is my thought.

1. Just share your one meal with someone who is really in need

2. Don't waste food

3. Teach your future generation the same.

Every incident happening in our life or the things that we happened to see have good & bad. Like swan, take good things by leaving back the bad ones. Life moves on, but while moving on see around and try to add your good deeds, make flowers gloom. May be that flowery path help your child to follow you and your child reaches you seeing the those shining bright color flowers. Don't create a desert path to your own generation. Please.

Hi Guys,

This is my first post. I am not sure whether I am good at this. I believe there is no offence in giving a try. Correct? Please forgive me for my mistake.. It could be in grammar or could be in spelling. Whatever it is, I need your support, I need your teaching but definitely not your critic. You all have your rights to agree or disagree my post.

I have spoken few things apart from the Blog topic. But it is my duty to put forward my thoughts before entering into my core content.

Humanity. What does this mean? Cause it has the word "Human" in it, Is it meant only to be shown towards Humans. No way guys.

Humanity has the word Human, cause it is something that every Human should possess.You should show humanity to all the living beings that includes all humans (Could be your Neighbor, enemy or any one), animals, birds, reptiles, insects, plants, shrubs, flowers etc.

As a Human, are we possessing that Humanism inside us? Don't you guys think that this speeding world pushing us to be evil and are we taking any step to bury it in? Yeah that's true we cant set ourselves free from evilness. Good and Evil always exist, what we grow is matters.

I wanted to share an incident that happened in my street. It was disturbing my mind for sometime.

I think it was around 8.30 PM, I was walking to my hostel (Returning from my job). I found a cute puppy, which was frightened by the horn sound (You guys can imagine it right. getting shivers, hiding himself somewhere). I think I had taken approximately 10 steps. Guys, remember it is a narrow street. A guys was speeding his bike on that street and hit the puppy which was crossing the road. I turned around and was looking what had happened.

Yeah I can hear you guys. Fine, sometimes it can happen. But what he should have done? He should have taken it to some doctor. At the least he should have checked what had happened to the puppy. But he did none, he just flew away with his bike. I found it very upset and I was guilty too. I am afraid of dogs and its late evening, yeah these are my excuses that I can say from my end for not helping the puppy. The least I did was I informed the blue cross about this incident and filed a complaint. So they will take action.

This is a thought from my mind friends.

1. No harsh driving in streets. Its good that it is only a street dog. Think what would have been his situation, if it was a child. This would have turned into a HIT & RUN case .

2. Whenever you are going somewhere make a practice to have a window of 15 minutes. So there won't be any need for speed/  harsh driving.

3. Don't have a practice of doing bike racing @ place where theee is a chance of heavy traffic, avoid such things at family zone.

Thanks guys for spending your time. Please be human. 

Have this in mind they too have family, they too have the sense of feeling pain (They don't have the 6th sense but sometimes I feel that we too don't have in some circumstances). Understand all the creatures. Don't think you are the only one living in this planet. God have created Human not to destroy other creatures, He gave 6th sense, so we utilize them, feed them , care them.