I believe everyone of you have a common definition about them. A person with feminine character and without feminine physical features. Also a person with masculine character and without masculine physical features (a rare case).
When I search through the meaning for transgender, it says those who are deviating themselves from the birth sex. Even when God is creating us he is not sure, whether this soul is going to be a Man or Woman that's why, all of us have nipples. Watch Madan Gowri's video on You tube for more info.
When I search through the meaning for transgender, it says those who are deviating themselves from the birth sex. Even when God is creating us he is not sure, whether this soul is going to be a Man or Woman that's why, all of us have nipples. Watch Madan Gowri's video on You tube for more info.
I really don't want to use the word "Transgender". But to convey who I am speaking about, I am forced to use it.
Everyone of us know what is Female? Being Feminine. When a guy has a feminine attitude then will ask him why are you behaving like a girl/ woman. So, being a female is not about having physical features, it is totally about possessing a feminine attitude.
Nothing in this world is fixed. Changes happens. Each one of us is different from other person in the Universe. No need for you to compare things with a so called typical women out there. If your heart believe and if you gets attracted towards all the things that a women do, then you are a WOMEN, you are a FEMALE. No need for someone to recognize you. No need for someone to acknowledge your existence. No need for someone to issue a law to add one more option called Others / Transgender under Gender in a form. No need for someone to help you shine in life. Remember this is a world which is not even recognizing the true care and affection. If you wait for people to acknowledge you. You need to wait forever and ever.
Nothing in this world is fixed. Changes happens. Each one of us is different from other person in the Universe. No need for you to compare things with a so called typical women out there. If your heart believe and if you gets attracted towards all the things that a women do, then you are a WOMEN, you are a FEMALE. No need for someone to recognize you. No need for someone to acknowledge your existence. No need for someone to issue a law to add one more option called Others / Transgender under Gender in a form. No need for someone to help you shine in life. Remember this is a world which is not even recognizing the true care and affection. If you wait for people to acknowledge you. You need to wait forever and ever.
I know you guys felt so happy when you got a new option in the form for marking your gender. But, how many of you filling it. How many of you tried to have a good education. I won't say good education. The education which everyone is learning now. How many of you fighting with The Government to provide a micro loan to start a new business.
I feel does it really needed? (3rd Gender option). If you feel you are a woman, why can't you just go ahead and mark you as a Female. So, it is not about the society. You are not confident about your own-self. Don't say you are the only ones who have been left alone by your family. Don't say you are the only ones who have been seen as a sexual thing. Don't say you are the only ones who have been treated us untouchable thing. Don't say you are the only ones who have been criticized for being like this.
Think - Many physically and mentally affected people are being left alone by their own family.
Think - Many mentally affected, old woman and kids irrespective of gender are going through physical/ sexual abuse
Physically and Mentally challenged people didn't ask for any gender category for being different. Yeah, I agree they have a separate row in the form somewhere to get their benefits. But, do you guys really need it? All you guys need is self motivation. Make a big leap from all the perspectives that others have on you. It will be a worthy step to take.
I can hear you guys. All you need is a person to listen ( this is not only for you, every human being need one). People respect you only when you do respectful things. This is a common thing applicable to the entire society not just for you. Bad behaviors wont ever fetch anything pleasant for you. You want this society to treat you good but I see you guys in bus, trains, toll booths, asking for money. Seriously, you behave like you own our money. Please don't think I am blaming you for your doings. I am just pointing out your mistakes.
I am speaking about these things not to hurt, but in future I don't want my child to have a disgusting look when they see you. I want a friendly community with you guys.
Just because you are different from others, you are not given with a license to do anything as u wish. Just because they compare you with Shiva - Ardhanarishvara. You are not God or Children of God. We are also his creation just like you.
I can hear you guys. All you need is a person to listen ( this is not only for you, every human being need one). People respect you only when you do respectful things. This is a common thing applicable to the entire society not just for you. Bad behaviors wont ever fetch anything pleasant for you. You want this society to treat you good but I see you guys in bus, trains, toll booths, asking for money. Seriously, you behave like you own our money. Please don't think I am blaming you for your doings. I am just pointing out your mistakes.
I am speaking about these things not to hurt, but in future I don't want my child to have a disgusting look when they see you. I want a friendly community with you guys.
Just because you are different from others, you are not given with a license to do anything as u wish. Just because they compare you with Shiva - Ardhanarishvara. You are not God or Children of God. We are also his creation just like you.
Changing the society's perspective and getting respect from others are not a one day activity, you need to build them. Once built, they are like tree with strong roots. Very tough to demolish it. There are few people out in the world from your community, shining like a star. Don't wait for someone to bring you up from the deep hole. No one knows you are in there, if you didn't shout. Make your impression, change the fate of your community. If you want to do something for the future generation, change yourself.
Hi Normal Women and Men, out,
Please stop pulling these people down. Don't behave like cruel creature. Just like every other creations, they are his creation. So, stop telling bad things about them to your kids. Irrespective what people are, it is our duty to be kind and polite. Teach your kids to be kind and polite. Teach them to respect people for their behavior, Teach them not to be harsh with anyone just because they are lagging or different from the existing huge community.
Please stop pulling these people down. Don't behave like cruel creature. Just like every other creations, they are his creation. So, stop telling bad things about them to your kids. Irrespective what people are, it is our duty to be kind and polite. Teach your kids to be kind and polite. Teach them to respect people for their behavior, Teach them not to be harsh with anyone just because they are lagging or different from the existing huge community.
Apologies to all of you, If I am harsh somewhere. This post is not to hurt any Transgender out there. It is a post to make yourself feel confident about your own-self. Keep in mind, all are struggling to live and you are going to struggle a bit more than us. But you should... right????. You can't keep on living such a meaningless life forever.
